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When Is It Time?

Deciding "the right time" is one of the most important and emotional choices a family can face. What are the signs that change is needed?

WHAT TO LOOK FOR

  • Poor Hygiene - dirty clothing, ill-fitting clothing, urine stains and smells, infrequent bathing. 

  • Weight loss - skipping meals, spoiled food, poor food choices.

  • Frequent hospitalizations - or doctor visits, falls, bruising, accidents, decreased mobility and increased balance issues.​

  • Medication mistakes - missed doses, complicated medication routine

  • ​Memory changes - Repetitive conversations, difficulty operating a phone or remote control, missed appointments.

  • Personality Changes - Social isolation, decreased participation in family activities, giving up hobbies, unrealistic fears.​

  • Depression - Unreasonable decisions or actions, lack of interest, including seclusion

  • ​Family burnout - Lack of sleep, sense of guilt, anger, loneliness, feeling overwhelmed, family member's increased health issues. Neighbors and friends become concerned. More responsibility has fallen on family member(s). 

WAYS TO MOVE FORWARD

  • Talk to Family Member(s) - Bring a list of discussion items. Be open honest and compassionate about challenges.​

    • Use real examples: Point to specific incidents (e.g., missed medications, falls) rather than general fears.

    • ​Bring in trusted professionals: Doctors and case managers can help validate concerns and guide decisions.

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  • Invite involvement: Bring your loved one into the search process. ​

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  • ​​​​​​Gather Personal Information - Power of Attorney, Living Will, Medical cards, Medical Providers, Financial Information including Checking Account access, Insurance Policies and Family Contacts. 

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  • Long-Term Care Insurance - Become an Authorized Representative so that you have access to policy information. Find out what the policy entails by talking to representatives in insurance and in Assisted Living. 

We're here to help

If you’re wondering whether now is the right time for Stone Hearth Estates, or if you just want to consider your options, reach out to us. We’re happy to answer questions, review Long-Term Care policies, help you assess your needs, and guide you through next steps — no pressure, just support.

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